Can a woman rape a man?

by admin September 18, 2019 0 comments

We are hearing a lot of cases of rape these days all around the world and the number is still increasing daily. Estimated rape statistics of some of the countries, per year are, South Africa have 500,000 rapes per year (1), China have 31,833 rapes a year (2), Egypt have more than 200,000 rapes a year (3), and the United Kingdom at 85,000 rapes a year (4).

According to an article published by MyRepublica , Six rape cases reported daily in Nepal (5)

Above, we talked about the number of rape or rape attempts done my men to women but what about the number of rape or rape attempts done my women to men.

Can a woman rape a man?

Some of the readers might be laughing even thinking about this “How on this earth is it possible that a woman rapes a man?” Yeah, I agree, it seems pretty difficult for a woman to rape a man because of man’s physical strength which is greater than a woman in general. And yes, how can we forget about the “erection” without which sexual intercourse is near to impossible because we all know without a man being sexually aroused, erection is impossible and when a man is aroused, it is now a casual sex, not a rape or a forced sex because now his erection shows that he is interested too.

Some might be thinking that this is not even a crime. Some even might be thinking that a man must be too lucky to get raped by a woman, but this is not the case always. There are lots of men are the victim of forced sex.

The story below is an example of how men are also being sexually abused and raped by women.

The story is extracted from a news article on BBC News as it is (6).

Some readers will find this story disturbing

Dr. Siobhan Weare of Lancaster University Law School carried out the first research into forced penetration in the UK in 2016-7, gathering information from more than 200 men via an online survey.

Her latest study, published this week - based on one-to-one interviews with 30 men between May 2018 and July 2019 - explores in greater detail the context in which forced penetration occurs, its consequences, and the response of the criminal justice system.

All the participants were anonymized, but I will call one of them John.

John says the first sign that something was wrong was when his partner started to self-harm. After a particularly frightening incident, he rushed her to A&E for treatment. The couple spent hours discussing possible psychological causes.

About six months later instead of harming herself, she trained her sights on John.

"I was sitting in the living room and she just came in from the kitchen, punched me very hard on the nose and ran off giggling," John says. "The violence then started happening quite regularly."

She tried to get help from her GP, John says. She had some counseling, and she was referred to a psychologist - though she didn't attend the appointment.

She'd come home from her job "and basically demand sex", he says.

"She would be violent, and it got to the stage that I dreaded her coming back from work."

On one occasion John woke up to find that his partner had handcuffed his right arm to the metal bed frame. Then she started hitting him on the head with a loudspeaker from the stereo system beside the bed, tied up his other arm with some nylon rope and tried to force him to have sex.

Scared and in pain, John was unable to comply with her demands - so she beat him again and left him chained up for half an hour, before returning and freeing him. Afterward ,she refused to talk about what had happened.

Not long after that she became pregnant, and the violence abated. But a few months after the baby was born, John again woke one night to discover that he was being handcuffed to the bed.

Then, he says, his partner force-fed him Viagra and gagged him.

"There was nothing I could do about it," he says.

"Later I went and sat in the shower for I dunno how long… I eventually went downstairs. The first thing she said to me when I went into the room was, 'What's for dinner?'"

When John has tried to tell people about it, he says he has often met with disbelief.

"I've been asked why I didn't leave the house. Well, it was my house that I'd bought for my kids. And the financial side as well, I was so locked into the relationship financially," he says.

"I still get disbelief because it's like, 'Well why didn't you hit her back?' I get that quite a lot. Well that's a lot easier said than done.

"I wish I'd run away a lot sooner."

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